“Comparison is the thief of joy.” — Theodore Roosevelt — We are all own our own path, our own timeline, our own journey. Yet, we are told we need to hit these certain milestones by a certain age. On top of that, if we don't hit that milestone when we were supposed to, we are deemed failures. Well, friends, I…

It’s almost the 1st anniversary of when the world shut down. The shutdown that would change our lives forever. The saying ingrained in my head was “This is our new normal.”. Oh, how I loathed that slogan. I would hear it every day at work and sigh. I knew people…

Ignore and soar. — Believe it or not, the place we feel the safest is our most limiting spot. That space is called our comfort zone. I'm sure by now you have heard the comfort zone bubble through work, school, social media, and more. There are plenty of self-development books out there preaching for…

Vulnerability is terrifying. I used to believe my personality was anti-vulnerable. I am a Gemini and an enneagram 6 if you know, you know. All my life I thought people who showed vulnerability were weak people. Those people needed to be taken care of and were emotional wrecks. I personally…

Grow your mindset and see how far you’ll go! — I don’t know about you guys, but man has my motivation plummeted. I, like all of you during the first week of 2021 had my manifestations written down in my new planner. I was ready to take on the new year with concrete intentions. Now, we are in week two…

Our feelings begin with a thought, that thought becomes an emotion, that emotion turns into action. As a passionate Gemini, my emotions can run the show some days. Many passionate people like myself feel deeply. In fact, we feel so deeply that we pretend to be emotionless. We put up…

Being in a relationship in 2020 was a trip. You either made it or you didn't. That is a devastating fact that trampled over couples this year. The COVID-19 pandemic caused us all to quarantine and stay home. The “Stay- at Home” order caused couples to be all up in…

As this emotional rollercoaster of a year comes to an end, everyone is looking to the future. As I scroll through social media, I see all the detox scams and inspirational quotes. Let’s be real though, when the clock strikes 12 our reality will not change. We will still be…

The saying goes “When you point the finger at someone, you have three pointed back at you.” My mind was blown that day during health class in high school. We were on the topic of psychology, which I always found interesting. Observing what makes the human race tick is an…